We think deciding to hold your wedding in a gorgeous location like Hawaii is a great move. You get to share a delightful, informal day set against a stunning backdrop with your loved ones.
But there’s one thing that you need to think through carefully...your budget. With a fixed budget in mind, the number of people that you can invite will be limited. Do you stick to immediate family only? Or does the thought of leaving behind your closest friend of twenty years put you into a cold sweat?
You also need to consider if you will have to ask guests to pay all or part of their trips. It’s understandable if you feel guilty about this. However, it’s your wedding day and you shouldn’t compromise on your dream location to accommodate the circumstances and preferences of others.
You will have to discuss with your partner what is right for both of you. It may be that some family members or friends will feel hurt if they are excluded. Be prepared for this reaction and explain how and why you made the decision. Reassure them that you still want to share your celebrations with them and arrange a party for those who couldn’t go when you get back.
If you’re thinking of a destination Hawaii wedding, give us a call. We have talked through these kinds of fears with couples in the past and can help you to figure out what’s right for you.
